This is a story sent to us by someone who needs an advice from our esteemed NFC forumites. It is a case of a lady dumped by her lover with their child because she rejected the idea of taking the child to a motherless home. But right now, the man wants a place in her heart again.
She is confused on what to do about it and wants an advice from our readers. Please, no abusive and hate comments on this issue but just a candid and sincere advice. Thanks.
Below is the mail.
I got married to this man, traditionally, February 2010, fixed our white wedding 30th April, 2010, but he decided to turn off the wedding due to some church issues of confirmation in the Anglican Communion.
I quickly joined the confirmation class immediately in that same church according to the priest of the church in other not to miss the white wedding. After I was confirmed, he refused to fixed the wedding date again.
We never wedded again because I took in then. He stopped me from going to work and I had a baby boy in December 2010. He was so happy that he forgot himself and said all he had hidden in his heart "thank God ooo!!!, you can now go". He revealed that he doesn’t intend living with a woman all the rest of his life.
I asked him what he meant by that statement but he was shocked. Since then, we started living like cat and rat till the baby was one year and six months. He didn’t buy food again in the house, talk anymore or buy baby food. He started beating me up and keeping malice and all sorts of things.
The day I tried to know the reason for all these things, he taught me a lesson that mid-night.
Then he abandoned me and the baby. When our house rent expired, I travelled home in April 2011. His people asked him to come, which he did. He told my people that the marriage is over between us and he was asked what the bone of contention was but he said that I did nothing to him. He said his family never supported him since.
To my greatest surprised, he said he will like to go with his baby to the motherless home where the baby can be taken care of properly. My parents objected to that. Presently, my baby is with my mum in Enugu.
Now, as am talking to you, he’s begging my people for reconciliation but my parents have rejected him.
Please, readers advice me on what to do because I never loved him again.
