Unfortunately, it's not always how you want it to be. You might be into some guy, but for some reason he's just not into you. You'll first give him little hints about how you feel (not telling him bluntly) and expect him to do the same, but even with this effort it seems that this guy is either not getting it or isn't into you.
Usually, the best option would be to get over him and move on, since he's obviously not able to see what's in front of his face and why should you care if he's missing out on something so wonderful (you)?
Usually, the best option would be to get over him and move on, since he's obviously not able to see what's in front of his face and why should you care if he's missing out on something so wonderful (you)?
Unfortunately, sometimes things aren't as easy so you'd feel a lot better if you knew exactly why this is happening. It's true that all guys are different but often enough, it's going to be down to one of the following 10 reasons.
1. You're trying too hard to have him: In your attempts to seduce this one particular man you might come of as very needy. This is a major turn off for men especially if they believe that they can have you at any given time. Men love the chase, so it's best to let them do the chasing… give him little hints but never go for him all the way as that will push him away.
2. He knows he can have you: This is a huge turn-off for guys. A man knows he 'has' you when 2 things happen. 1)You're available all the time; 2) When you let him know that you want him badly. When they know they can have you, they lose interest.
You can resolve this by giving him the constant impression that you are seeing someone else and that you've always got a full schedule. Resist your desires in order for things to progress smoothly.
3. You're not his kind of girl: Many times women get offended when a guy just doesn't like her. It doesn't matter what it is, you may just not be the right girl for him. Don't let this get to you and certainly DO NOT CHANGE for any guy. Move on until the right one comes by.
To help you get through this, think of all the guys you dated but just didn't like for whatever reason.
4. He only sees you as a friend: In your presence, does this guy talk about other girls he likes? Does he give you details about his conquests? When this happens, it's obvious that you two are just friends. He may have put you in the friend zone, but it's also possible that you declined his initial advancements and allowed for the relationship to evolve like this, only to later discover that you actually like him.
5. He's into someone else: You can't expect to instantly notice if he's a quality guy and sometimes you notice it too late. Know that he may be already infatuated by someone else or he might even be in a committed relationship. If this is the case, give it time as things might change in your favor but ideally you should move on.
6. He's not s*xually into you: If you've been friends for a long time, it's quite possible that the image of you naked has faded away from his mind. If you see him getting excited about other women, but not you, it may mean that he's not sexually attracted to you. You can put this to the test by dressing up and showing some skin, if he reacts, it's good, but if he doesn't, it means that he looks at you as a friend and can't picture anything happening.
7. He thinks you're not compatible: Think about yourself here: are there some things you desperately need to have in any potential mate? Well, men think in the same way. It may be that for whatever reason you just aren't ticking those boxes, so, if you want to know more about this particular issue, try to ask about what he's looking for in a woman. Is the woman he is describing you? If not, then you've got your answer.
8. He's got unreasonable standards: There are men on this planet who think they are so great that only supermodels are worth being their girlfriends. If this is the case, forget about this guy, sooner or later he's going to realize the mistake he made and you'll see him come crawling back to you… When this happens, treat him as he did you.
9. Family influence: He may like you, but his family or close friends might not approve. If this is the case, forget about this guy as he's not a real man anyway.
10. Religious and spiritual views: There are many people who stand true to their religious views. This may not be his central reason (as people can convert), but, topped off with other reasons, it will stop him from dating you.
