She
has been ridiculed, stared at in the street and called 'the world's
ugliest woman' by insensitive cyber bullies.
But, after years of misery and self doubt, Lizzie Velasquez says she can
finally shrug off the hurtful comments about her looks as 'just words'.
Miss
Velasquez, from Austin, Texas, was born without adipose tissue -
meaning she has no body fat and, despite eating up to 60 small meals a
day, remains at a delicate 4.4stone (58lbs).
The rare condition still baffles doctors and is thought to affect just
two other people worldwide.
Miss
Velazquez has now written a second book about her struggle to be
accepted and hopes it will help others in a similar position.
In Be Beautiful, Be You the 23-year-old college senior shares advice on
being unique, how to make and keep good friends and how to deal with
bullying and negativity.
Speaking to Dr Drew Pinsky on Tuesday night about her experiences, Miss
Velasquez said when cyber bullies first started attacking her online it
was hard.
She
told Dr Drew: 'I'm human... of course these things are going to hurt...
(but) I'm not going to let those things define me.'
Eventually Miss Velasquez realised the people issuing the hurtful
comments online were just cowards hiding behind a computer screen.
'At the end of the day, these are just words,' Miss Velasquez told Dr
Drew.
'If
they are so proud, then they should show their face.'
When asked how she deals with being constantly stared at in the street
Miss Velasquez said: 'I'm starting to want to go up to these people and
introduce myself or give them my card and say, "Hi, I'm Lizzie - maybe
you should stop staring and start learning".'
Miss
Velasquez also revealed she does not have any desire to look like a
beautiful celebrity.
She said: 'I feel I'm really glad I don't look like the celebrities out
there who are beautiful, because there are a lot of stereotypes attached
to that.
'People
think "she's so pretty, she must be really dumb". Since I don't look
like that it's better because people can get to know the real me.'
Miss Velasquez was born four weeks prematurely weighing just 2lb 10oz.
Doctors found there was minimal amniotic fluid protecting her in the womb.
'They told us they had no idea how she could have survived,' Miss Velasquez's mother Rita, 45, a church secretary, said.