An Osogbo Grade III Customary Court on Tuesday dissolved a 17-year-old
marriage of one Asimiyu Oladosu over frequent beating by the wife.
Oladosu told the court that his wife, Kehinde, was fond of beating him
whenever he returns from church or outings. He said the marriage was
blessed with three children but he could no longer bear his wife’s
attitude. Hmm, looks like the tables are turning: It used to be the
other way round!
“I am tired of this marriage due to frequent beating by my wife as well
as her nagging nature. She does not go to church and whenever I go to
church or vigil, she will not allow me into the house and if she does,
she beats me mercilessly. Based on these facts, I want the court to
dissolve this union,” he said. The wife, admitted that she usually beat
her husband, adding that she did that under the influence of what she
called an “unknown spirit.” Kehinde, who cried profusely, prayed the
court to settle the matter amicably, adding that she still loves her
husband. “What my husband said was true.
I always beat him but I
do not know what usually comes over me whenever I do that. I still love
my husband and I want the matter to be settled amicably. I don’t want
to leave him and I promise that I will never beat him again,” the wife
said.
The President of the court, Mrs Temilade Agboola, pleaded
on behalf of the woman and asked the man to forgive her. But Oladosu
refused and maintained that he preferred divorce. Agboola said that
since the husband wanted a divorce, there was nothing the court could do
but to grant the request. She dissolved the marriage and ordered that
the wife should take custody of the three children. Agboola also ordered
Oladosu to give a monthly up-keep of N9, 000 for the children.